Sunday, November 30, 2008

Thanksgiving in WI - Day 3 Snow day!

Big white flakes fly in the sky since mid morning. We get to experience the real winter! Andy is fascinated by this. He gives that curious look when holding a snow ball in his hand.
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He becomes warmed up to Grandma Zhong and Grandpa Su more today. My dad plays with him for a good 1.5 hours alone this afternoon. Mom has been training Andy to push the cart and make turns by himself. He could barely push the cart for more than a few feet yesterday. But as you can see in the video below, he has made a lot progress: he manages to push the cart steadily and even make some turns by himself!


The night before pushing the cart


Tonight pushing cart video

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Thanksgiving in WI - day 2 Visit Waukesha

Visit with my friends Aciauw and Anh Tram and their three munchkins. They just had a 3rd boy a few weeks ago. Baby Paul was taking a nap while I was there. He is so adorable and tiny. It wasn't that long ago when Andy was that small. The last I saw them was more than 4 years at their wedding. We laughed about potty training accidents and amazed at how fast time went.
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Thanksgiving Trip - Day 1 in WI

The flight is ok. The first flight has lots of kids (I wait in line to get the gate-checked stroll). Andy plays with one of the 2.5 year old in an adjacent row. They share toy and play (but no sleep). I take out the camera to get some good shots. He is a bit cranky near the end of the first 3.5 hour flight, probably more due to the missing nap than the air pressure change. He finally falls asleep in my arms near the end of the second lag (~6pm CST, we start 10:30am PST). Then he naps for 2 more hours after the plane ride, has some dinner, plays a bit and sleeps by 10. He automatically gets on CST and gets up before 8 the next day. The worst part of the trip is that I lose the camera on the first flight after taking pictures! I file the Lost-Found info claim, but the odds of getting it back is slim.

The weather here has been great: beautifully sunny with cloudless blue sky, a little chilly but manageable to be outside.

We meet Irene and her almost 2 year old Lilian at the Olbrich garden on Friday morning. It has a nice rain forest tropical garden, which is great for the cold Madison weather. Andy loves it there.

Friday, November 28, 2008

14 mo observations (espeically on verbal)

- He's got a couple more words down: "bu2 yao4" (=don't want to, i.e. no), zai4 jian4 (= bye) and bye. For a while, he really likes to pull others' noses for fun. I tell him "bu2 yao4", and he'd loosen the grip and take his hand back. He responds to both "zai4 jian4" and bye with hand waving. It's nice to see the bi-lingual training taking effect.

- He shows preferences for some books more than others. For the ones he doesn't care for, he tends to wander away while you read to him and eventually take the book from you and throw it off the bed to stop you from reading. For the ones he likes, not only does he seem to focused, he makes the surprising "oh" sound whenever getting to a page that he finds fascinating. He continues making that sound for his favorite pages as if seeing them for the first time every time. Right now his favorite books are the "Baby's First Numbers" and "I Spy". He liked the "Baby's First Words" book for many months but eventually lost interest in it recently. Ffor a few weeks I've been asking him "where is the dog" in Chinese when we get to page 10 in the Number book (has 10 dogs for illustration), and then hold up his stuffed animal dog. He now looks around the bed for his dog and bring it to me when I ask that question.

- It seems some words learning are associated with the environment (or at least initially). For example, I often say "wo wo shou" (means shake hands) in the car when we are at stop lights. Initially he starts to clap as he confuses it with the clapping word in Chinese. After while he learns the distinction and always extends one hand out for me to shake. But when I say "wo wo shou" in different settings, he doesn't always extend the hand out (still confuses with clapping sometimes).

- He has more stranger anxiety now. He cries loud and hard when he doesn't see mom or dad around on his 13mo going back to WI trip for Thanksgiving than on his 8 mo WI trip. It takes him a few days to warm up to the grandparents, but once he does, he couldn't stop his bumping heads greeting with them.

- He hasn't figured out the classical sorting block toy yet. He likes to open the top and dunk all the blocks in that way. So he's got a homemade bigger sorting toy now. It's a Costco size Oatmeal box with a cicle and a square cut out on one side. The circular is the easy one as it doesn't require any rotation to fit the object in. He practices with round and rectangular juice bottles. After lots of practice he is able to push the rectangular bottle into the square hole consistently one night. But he regresses the next few days and when he gets frustrated, he just throw the bottle on the floor.

Homemade Sorter (Spending the most practice on the middle one)

- He practices pushing a cart borrowed from Irene while in WI. After a bit of training he is able to make some turns by himself by starting to turn before it hits furniture. Then he regresses. He likes pushing his truck now since coming back. It is a little harder to steer as the handle is narrower, so he roams along from the living room to the hallway to the front door straight (mostly).

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Fire Station Rendezvous on a Sunday Afternoon

Sunday 11/23
As we were walking into the park across the street from the fire station side, we saw a bunch of kids holding the water hose at the fire station. One guy with a mustache looked familiar. Could he be one of the 3 fire fighters that helped with the delivery? I went up and asked "did you by any chance deliver a baby across the street?" "Oh yes, we delivered one right across the street there." The conversation started. "Oh this must be Andy... yes yes it was a cute card with his footprint last year..." Amazing that they remembered his name! One of three men was also named Andy and they joked the baby was named after him when they got the Thank-you card. So we met Todd, the man who cut the cord, and Cliff, the man with the mustache (Andy was not on the shift that day). It turns out that the fire station rents out a room for kids birthday parties and it includes a tour and some demos. We hung around for the demo, chatted lots, sat in the driver seat of the fire engine, and got pictures with the men. What a wonderful surprise (perfect for my birthday :-)!
The only unfortunate is that I lost the camera on the flight to Madison, so there went all the precious pictures I didn't get to download! :-(

We went to Rebecca's for a pre-Thanksgiving dinner afterwards. It was a lot of fun with all the babies and good conversations and good food. Again, sorry for the picture loss:-(

Monday, November 3, 2008

13 mo Observations

- He gets from crawling to standing position whenever he finds something to hold on to. He 'walks" his way around the living room quite a bit by holding on to furniture.

- His new greeting: head bump. When he gets friendly with people, he does that repeatedly with giggling smiles.

- He makes more variations of sounds on dada, mama: he says nana, baba, etc. now. The sounds he makes tend to cover general meanings. For example, he makes this "pheuw" sound when he is excited or sees something new or sees food (so that's a happy sound).

- He uses color pencils to draw instead of for eating finally! Though he likes to draw all over the place (hard wood floor, etc) instead of confined to the paper.

- He's been enjoying library story times a lot! Often he is more interested in other babies in the room than the stories. He seems to be fascinated by the group environment and always enjoys group activities like shaking musical pros or clapping (when he is not distracted by neighbors :-) . The public library system here is really nice that there are usually story times every day of the week in different libraries.

- He likes bath now! For a long time he screamed and wailed at the sight of running water (that's why bath wasn't part of the night routine). Gradually he becomes interested in water falls. Then shower became easier (only screamed the first minute of it). Now he has learned to entertain himself by splashing water: washing hands and taking a bath become fun activities (so still can't make bath a nightly ritual for the time it takes and the excitement it brings).

- He starts to become selective about food. He likes the steamed bread I make. It's multi-grain plus veggies and egg bits and sometimes salmon or chicken bits. He likes being able to hold the bread bits and feed himself. When he doesn't like a broccoli or bigger green looking veggie by itself, he'd pick it out and hand to you or drop it on the floor and then say "oho" as if by accident.

- Misc events
- Sunday 10/26. We have a nice visit with Bill from my drawing session. Bill is like a grandpa to Andy. Then Brian & Qiaolan come in the late afternoon. We play at the playground across the street for a while. Then Rebecca and Tom come to join us. We have a cozy dinner gathering together with 3 babies! Andy gets toys gifts from them. He has been cautiously pushing the truck around.

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Sunday, November 2, 2008

Halloween

We have a Halloween party at work on Friday that has a bunch of kids activities ranging from pumpkin carving, cookie decorating, to kids dance floor and balloon artists. Andy groves with the music and looses up on the hand grip: he stands on his own and holds one handed a few times.

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